What Are the Effective Ways on How to Get a Man to Approach You?

Missing the chance to connect to someone you really like is aggravating. You knew all along you were doing it right, you put your best foot forward but it doesn't seem enough on how to get a man to approach you. You spent hours picking out the perfect dress, you do your hair and makeup perfectly in an effort to make a guy notice you. You must realize that appearance is never enough to get a guy to come up to you. Being physically attractive is just one part of the whole play. Don't worry because by doing a little tweaks on your strategies, you will be able to make a guy notice you and want to approach you. Keep in mind that being attractive will make a guy take a glance but being approachable is the road to take if you want someone to strike a conversation with you. So, how exactly are you going to do this?

One of the foolproof ways to make a man come up to you is to smile at him and the people around you. A sweet smile can be a girl's best weapon. Stop frowning and being grumpy. Sure a guy will notice you for that but not in the way you wanted, I can guarantee you that. When a woman smiles a lot, she emits a positive vibe and people would want to be around her. A man is more likely to approach you if he sees that you are positive and happy. Make sure you are sincere when you smile because people can always tell the difference between a genuine and a fake smile. Make eye contact when you are talking to someone. Learn how to listen and restrain yourself from talking about yourself and your achievements so much. A little enthusiasm won't hurt but don't overdo it and sound so chirpy all the time.

The next thing that you have to work on is your body language. This is another thing that we seem to ignore because we don't think it is as important as verbal communication. If you send out the wrong signal by acting like a snob, when in reality you are just shy, things will not go your way. Your posture and overall expression say a lot about you and that includes how comfortable you are with yourself and towards other people.

So, you've got the smile, eye contact and body language all figured out and you are ready to put everything into practice, is there anything else you need to know when it comes to how to get a man to approach you?

Learn how to employ the "green light" strategy. If you are always haggard and all you do is make yourself unavailable by being glued to your phone, don't expect a guy to try to come near you. When you constantly keep your head down and seem too occupied, you give out a closed-off vibe. Men need a sign that they won't be rejected should they approach you. This is a little complicated because it is so easy to send out the wrong message. Bottom line is that you have to be available but not too much that the guy you want will think that you are too friendly if you know what I mean. Do not surround yourself with a lot of people. When you are in a group, it's harder for a guy to approach you because he knows that as soon as he walks away with your number; all your friends will start evaluating him. Coming up to one girl is intimidating enough, let alone a group. If you are going to a coffee shop or a bar, you are better off bringing just one girl friend, or maybe two.

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