The Wrong Way to Get Over a Painful Broken Heart

The worst emotional feeling is a broken heart caused from a divorce, cheating spouse or even a loved one dying. It's natural to cover it up any way we can. Getting involved with someone too fast is the wrong way to get over a painful broken heart.

It can cause a life-long mistake because of irrational thinking. It hurts to think of someone you loved so much has left you to dwell in your pain. Many people look for comfort in the bars only to make things worse the next morning and then they start all over again.

They lose their job, home, family and pride. It takes time to mend a broken heart, but jumping into an affair or fling isn't the answer. There are people who meet someone on the rebound and end up getting married, and then later they regret what they have done.

Some go through dating sites and start a relationship that wasn't meant to be. They are vulnerable and some people lose their life savings and assets from an online dating scam artist. The scam artist tells them what they want to hear and he helps heal their broken heart and rips them off.

Some people go through a few divorces due to a broken heart. They're looking for their true love that dumped them, but they must think he is cloned. They need to go to singles events where they can meet people and have fun without the serious relationship.

Once their heart starts to mend, they'll be able to think rationally. Once enough time has passed, they'll be ready to think about a new love. When that time comes they need to attend a speed dating event or go to a good dating service that will help them with their profile.

A background check and screening will weed out the criminals and drug users. They will know the type of person they're looking for which will be someone entirely different from the one that broke their heart. Just a few minutes on their first date will tell them if they like this person. They can pursue more dates and learn to know who this person is, but they must take their time.

Members have jumped the gun too many times when looking for a new love. Love doesn't grow on trees, but there is one special person for everybody out there. It just takes time to meet that someone special. Just wanting to be with someone to stop the loneliness is the wrong way to get over a painful broken heart.

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