What to Look For in a Positive Feel Good Date

Feeling good around someone is all about a positive attitude. People that are depressed, put you down and complain about everything going on in their life brings you down. It's tough trying to accomplish anything when you live with or are around someone like that.

They're miserable with themselves and they want you to be miserable too. They blame others for their mistakes because they won't accept their wrong doings as their fault. Millions of people are married to someone like that and approximately 75% end in divorce.

The other spouse gets to the point where they can't take it anymore and wants a better life. You don't need to live with the negative attitude of someone bringing you down. If you know what to look for in a positive feel good date, your life will take a complete turn-around.

Start with your profile and specify someone with a positive attitude that's cheerful and smiling with a good outlook on life. Be as specific as possible when writing your profile and include some great photos of yourself.

When you think you have met your match, make a date and see if this person makes you feel good. If they complain or talk bad about someone, it's time to leave. That's a good indication they're a negative person. If he makes you feel good and you think you can conquer the world, then he is the one for you.

One date doesn't tell you everything about a person. Sometimes they put on a good front to impress you, so get to know him well before judging him. See how he acts around others, such as saying hello to strangers, helping someone pick groceries up that fell out of their sack and helping someone jump their battery.

These are signs of a positive feel good guy that loves life. After dating him for six months, you will know his character, personality and behavior patterns. Never let anyone control you, push you into something or give you ultimatums. Someone like that will cause you misery and it's hard to break away from them.

So many marriages are destined for destruction because they don't get to know the other person. They're impatient and want to tie the knot without realizing the outcome especially if there are kids involved. It's hard to get out of an over controlling relationship or marriage.

You need to know what to look for in a positive feel good date and take it one step at a time learning about this person. You will have a great life filled with happiness if you do this.

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