Learn To Read The Signs And Tell If He's A Player Before He Breaks Your Heart!

Are you nursing a broken heart yet again because you got involved with a player? Would you like to find out how you can tell if he is a player before you fall head over heels? Do you want to learn to read the signs that can show you whether a guy is a keeper or a player? If you keep getting sucked in by those Don Juan player types, obviously you are misreading the signs. He'll act much differently if he is player than he will if he is a keeper. But as you've already learned, sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference.

It's Never A Good Idea To Rush Into A Relationship

You really have to be a bit cautious when you first meet a guy because he'll be on his best behavior to make a good first impression. If he is a player, he'll play the role to perfection. Because he's been around so many girls, he knows exactly what to say and how to act. He knows what most girls are looking for and he'll be that person so he can draw you in.

It's usually pretty hard to tell the difference between a player and a keeper at first. But keeping up that first impression is going to be difficult for the self-centered player. His true colors will shine through before too long because as a player he really doesn't care about you as a person. To him, you might be someone to have a few laughs with, or maybe even just another notch on his bedpost.

Ways To Tell A Keeper From A Player

A keeper will want to get to know you and that interest will show in his conversation and in his consideration. He'll be the guy who asks you question instead of doing a running monologue about himself and what he likes to do. When a player asks you a question, it's different and you can see how it's different if you pay attention.

Is a guy looking at you when you're talking, or are his eyes roving all around? Is he asking you any follow-up questions, or is he just waiting for you to finish talking so he can start? Do you get the sense that he really cares about what you're saying or does he seem to care less about anything you talk about? See, when you start to think about the answers to these questions, it's not hard to tell what kind of guy he is.

You could also think about where you go and what you do when you're on a date. A keeper will actually try to do things with you that he thinks you might like. A player will rarely take the trouble to plan ahead.

What About Sex?

When it comes to getting physical, a player may get bored quickly if you're not going to put out for him because that's a big part of his attraction to you. He'll move onto a more willing girl if you're not into it and doesn't mind letting you know and putting a little pressure on you.

A keeper may want more physical contact with you but is willing to wait until you're ready. With a keeper, sex is not a bargaining chip because he cares for you and about you.

When it comes right down to it, if you learn to read the signs, you'll be able to tell if he is a player or a keeper. Sometimes the signs may not be so clear though so if you're having trouble figuring it all out, why not let me help?

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Kimberly White is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.

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