How to Get Him to Adore You: 3 Do's and Don'ts You Need to Know

Getting a man attracted to you is fairly easy but if you want something more, you have to learn how to get him to adore you. If you keep your man happy, he will do everything in his might to please you. Keep in mind that great relationships don't just happen. They are a product of hardwork from both parties and lots of creativity. Of course that goes without saying that love, honesty, trust and tolerance are critical to make your union stronger. You can't just sit around, do nothing and expect your man to worship you. Here are some dating do's and don'ts that will make your man adore you:


-Do's


1.) Learn about him and his interests.


Your man will love you more if you take the time to know and be a part of the things he is interested in. Instead of ganging up on him for staying up late playing Call of Duty, why not play the game with him? You have to appreciate what he likes so he will return the favor.


Listen to every word he says. He might be mentioning his favorite dessert or the book he is obsessed about. Then you can surprise him the next day by sending him a box of his favorite cookies that you baked yourself. This will definitely melt his heart. Read the book that he is currently reading so you two can talk about it.


2.) Satisfy Him in Bed


If you know how to satisfy your man in bed, he will never forget you and won't bother looking at any other girl ever again. Dump all the guess work, a couple needs to be honest with each other in every aspect of the relationship and that includes the "making love" department. All you have to do is ask him what he likes and what he doesn't. Men are pretty straightforward so expect untainted answers. If he likes dirty talk and role playing then it's about time that you let go of your inhibitions and that is if you want your man to worship you like a goddess.


3.) Surprise Him.


Believe it or not, men love surprises too. To fire up the passion in your relationship, surprise him once in a while with a romantic dinner for two that you cooked yourself. For a special night, wear sexy lingerie that you know he's going to be crazy about. When he comes home tired from work, draw him a bath and give him a massage afterwards. If you do occasional surprises for your man, he is going to feel that you truly care about him and he means so much to you.


-Don'ts


1.) Play Mind Games
How many times do we have to hear it? Men can't read our minds! Don't make it harder or more complicated than what it really is. Don't sulk in self-pity because your man doesn't get you. If he hurt your feelings all you have to do is come clean about it. Don't punish him just because he has no idea why you are throwing a feat. Tell him exactly how you feel and mean what you say. Don't say you are OK when you are really not. Don't tell him you are not mad anymore if you mean you are not going to talk to him for 3 days.


2.) Demand for his Passwords


This is a mistake that most women make. You start dating a guy then you expect him to give you his Facebook and phone passwords. Sure, I can agree with you that if there is nothing to hide, there shouldn't be any problem. But this is not how a guy sees it. You need to respect his privacy and if he is going to give you all his passwords, it has to happen on its own time.


3.) Get Ahead of Yourself


If you want to get him to adore you then stop assuming things that he doesn't even think about. If you have the habit of jumping the gun like asking for his apartment keys, mentioning about how many children you want, telling him how you want your wedding to be; stop it right now as you will only end up scaring him away.


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