How Can I Decide If He Is the Right Guy for Me?

Do you wonder if he the right guy for you? Are you afraid to commit to him in case a better guy comes along? Are you unhappy because of how uncertain you sometimes feel about your guy? Then the following 3 keys will help you unlock your happiness and determine if he is the right guy for you.

Key 1 is the "must haves". The 1st key is to decide what it is that the right guy MUST have. What is not negotiable for you so that a guy who doesn't have it cannot be the right guy for you? Take a pen and paper and write down all the things that the right guy MUST has. And look at the man in totality from his physical attributes (height, build, skin color, eye color, hair length and type or none, tattoos, body piercings etc); his personal style (laid back and easy going, serious achiever type, how he dresses, what he spends his money on, what he does in his free time, what he eats or doesn't eat, his grooming, his hobbies or interest, how he spends his holidays etc); and his attitude towards other people (his faith, how he interacts with others in his life, how honest he is, his relationship with alcohol or other drugs etc).

Key 2 is the "could-haves". The 2nd key to deciding if he is the right guy is determining the things in him that you can live without. You know those things that it would be nice if he had it but if he has ALL the essentials then he doesn't necessarily have to have this particular thing. Remember that no man is perfect and so you must now decide the traits that would be nice if he had them... but if he doesn't have them you can live with it. He may not be as tall as you would like but you can live happily with a shorter man who has your must-have characteristics.

Key 3 is the "shouldn't-haves".The 3rd Key to help you decide if he is the right guy for you is the things you cannot have in a man... you will not compromise on these and any man with these cannot be the right guy for you. Maybe you dislike men who pierce their nose or a man who has been in prison or a man who has been violent with others or a man who is in his 3rd or 4th marriage etc. Continue writing and note the things you absolutely cannot have in the right guy.

As you have been writing down, has what you want in the right guy become surprisingly clear? These are the 3 keys to deciding on if he is the right guy.

For a guide that will walk you through a comprehensive process on how to determine if he is the right guy I would recommend this ideal man & relationship manual so that you can get the right man and thus your ideal relationship but if you just want additional pointers on the right guy then use these clues on finding the right guy.

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