How To Get A Girlfriend - When You Don't Think You Have A Chance

One of the things that I don't like to hear is when a guy makes a statement alluding to the fact that he thinks that he really doesn't have a chance of being able to get a girlfriend. When a guy says something to that effect, you know that he has pretty much given up on any hope of being able to attract the right woman. Even if you think that you really don't have much of a chance of being able to attract the right woman, you should know that you can get a girlfriend if you really put your mind to it.

Feeling as though you don't stand a chance when it comes to attracting a woman is one of the worst feelings that a guy can have. It takes away a lot of the drive that you have to really live life to the fullest and that's a shame. However, with the right advice, you should be able to see that it's not really that hard at all to get a girlfriend and that you can even have pretty high standards and still end up making a woman want to date you.

Here is some advice on what you should do if you want to have a girlfriend but you feel like you don't stand a chance:

1) The first thing that you need to do is to see yourself in your mind's eye being able to attract the right woman.

Even though I don't really like most of the "self help" advice that is out there, this is one thing that really does seem to have a positive effect. When you can actually picture yourself in your own mind being able to attract the right woman, you should feel a change inside of you where you finally begin to feel like you might be able to make it happen after all.

2) The second thing that you should do is to develop an idea of what kind of woman you want to be with.

There is no use in trying to attract a girlfriend if you don't have nay idea at all about what kind of woman you want to be with. You need to be able to narrow things down to where you do have a pretty good idea of what kind of woman you want to spend your time with so that you can recognize her when you meet her.

3) The third thing that you should try to do is to understand just how attraction works.

Many guys have this false impression of how attraction works. They believe that the nicer they are, the more attractive that they will be. While it is a good idea to be nice, it's not the one thing that is going to make you appear more attractive to women. You have to know how to put out the right vibe as well as how to make a woman feel like she wants to be with you. Most nice guys have trouble with this, and that's why it always seems like the bad boys are the ones that end up getting the girl.

When you know how to make a woman want you, getting a girlfriend is pretty easy.

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