Do You Feel Loved? How To Love More People More Of The Time

Do You Feel Loved? Tips For More Rewarding Relationships

Life is like a mirror - what you get is a direct reflection of what you give!

So the way to gain the kind of relationships you really want is to build those relationships yourself putting in what you want to receive.

Sometimes you meet a person who fails to respond in a logical fashion - I actually avoid these sort of people because you only have so much energy so why try harder than you need? Most people can and will respond to your relationship building in a reciprocal spirit and these are the persons you want to associate with for life success.

Your most basic need every day is to feel loved.

You may have a day where you work so hard you don't have time to eat: we can cope without food sometimes, but it is a poor day indeed if we don't feel loved or appreciated.

Do you feel appreciated at home? Look at your reactions to the people around you. Are you patient and considerate or do you tend to be short tempered? A smile is a good start to building better relationships. Do you ensure you are trustworthy? People tend to avoid a person they cannot trust. Trust is top of my people skills list.

You can build a feeling of trust by being reliable, doing what you say you will, genuinely apologizing if you fail, develop rapport with each individual and see things through their point of view. People really like it when you take a little time with them.

Do you take the time to listen or are you constantly trying to get your news and point of view across? See life through the other person's eyes and respond to them in kind. How would you feel if you were their age, height, gender, race, status, intelligence? Like people for who they are, where you find them right now. Everyone has potential to develop their personality, including you!

And everyone has some annoying habits, including you!

Be likeable, peaceful, patient, and always ready with something bright and positive to say. Create conversation based around the other person's interests. Listen more than you speak and act with courtesy and consideration whenever you have the opportunity. When you feel yourself becoming irritated take a deep breath and say to yourself "Careful!" Turn away if need be. Avoid confrontation and always strive for peace.

Be a strong personality with lots of genuine interests of your own - as you become involved in these you will naturally meet other people with a similar viewpoint to your own, which makes communication not only so much easier, but a real pleasure!

It's always a good thing to mix with people who are like yourself: if everyone around you irritates you perhaps it's time to ask yourself the question "Am I irritating?"

Keep calm!

People naturally trust and are drawn to someone who is calm. If you know what you believe and you are at peace with yourself you will have a poise and self confidence people will envy!

Love the people around you by seeing their point of view, listening to them, asking questions to draw them out on topics that interest them, and remembering details about them. Try to associate mainly with persons who share your interests. Avoid persons who make you feel bad. You only have to do what you want to do for yourself.

Be an interesting person and be calm and considerate towards others. Know yourself! Be positive and thoughtful. Take time unhurriedly with people.

It's time to feel a whole lot better about yourself! Who do you really want to be? What is stopping you? Do you love yourself on a deep level? Do you strive to be a trustworthy genuine person? Build your self confidence as you develop your personality skills and you will discover that people are naturally drawn to you, want to respect you, and are keen to know your point of view!

Life becomes so rewarding when all your personal relationships are built on a high level of trust, love, and integrity. Follow me and read my daily personal skills tips on My Self Help Blog. Thanks for reading!

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