Get Him To Approach You

Do you like him? Do you suspect that he may also like you but is too shy or afraid to approach you? Well then you must make approaching you less threatening so as to get him to approach you. Keep in mind the fact that men function a little differently from us gals in that they are very protective of their egos... and they avoid situations where their ego may be bruised or shattered. A man will thus not get into a situation where he may be shot down or rebuffed or embarrassed. To get him to approach you then you must find a way to appear safe to him. So how can you appear safe and get him to approach you?

Avoid grouping together with your girlfriends! Yes it may be comfortable to hang out with your girlfriends but a guy approaching you will have to impress not just you... but your girlfriends as well; an ego intimidating prospect for any man. If you do hang out with your girlfriends then find a way to keep a distance between you and them or to be a distance away from them so that you can be less threatening and more approachable.

Fix your face! To get him to approach you then you must look appealing and approachable to him. A long unhappy face or an angry face will be like a warning sign to keep away from you. A happy open face is what you need. If you are relaxed and happy then this will show in your face... and he will be more inclined to approach you. If you are miserable and uptight then that also shows on your face... and he will want to avoid the drama and misery that your face promises him.

Body language! Yes your body does speak... and you want it to say 'hello there!' and not 'go away I hate you!'. To get him to approach you; you need to have a good body image... you must love the body that you've been given. Your body may not be the best body in the world but you need to make peace with its shortcomings and love it. Take care of what you can (exercise, hair cut, grooming, makeup etc) and make peace with all that it is... and love its uniqueness! Stand straight, look ahead of you (not studying the floor)... and smile often for your instant more approachable makeover.

You must make approaching you as threat free as possible to the guy you are interested in.

For a manual to help you move all the way from hello to boyfriend with a man that is excited and enthralled by you then I recommend this relationship manual to help you navigate relationship mistakes that abort your relationship or make it harder that it should be but if you want additional help on being the attractive woman that you are then use the desirable woman pointers.

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