What Makes A Perfect Gay Wedding?

When a couple decides they want to bind their love in the eyes of the law and the rest of the world they choose to get married. It is great that same sex couples can get and they can enjoy all the traditions and trimmings of a typical wedding. However not every gay wedding will be the same and may not always follow the traditions as most weddings.

Most people have thought about what kind of wedding they would like, so have an idea already in mind. If not then you have to get your thinking caps on as how you see things can be quite pivotal to how the rest of the wedding will look and go. If you have idea about how you want the suits to look or where or how the party after wards will go you could work with that and let it influence the rest of the day.

One of the first things you want to do is find the location. This can be tricky making sure they are available. Look around and see if they are suitable to host a gay wedding. Booking the right place gets the ball rolling and sets it in stone giving everyone a date to work with.

The next step would be figuring out how many people you're going to invite to your gay wedding. You want numbers and this is quite important as once you know you can book the right tables and other things. The numbers could also affect the location, you don't want somewhere too big or too small, just right. The invitations are a vital way of finding out the numbers. Some design can go into the invites and depends how much money you have to spend on your big gay wedding they you could make then quite fancy.

The other main thing is to make sure you have someone who is registered to conduct a gay wedding. Of course there are religious things to people get wed so make sure you get a person you want. Once you have someone booked then you have the foundations of any wedding.

Now you have the main building blocks of a gay wedding you can start to put the little bits together. This is where you can really put your own style to proceedings. There is the clothes you need to think about. What are the two lucky men or women going to wear? Do you want things to have a certain look or colour scheme? The transportation needs to be looked at and the cake needs addressing.

The other main thing that is important but not necessary is the dance party after wards. For some this is one of the main focuses of the night and for some the most memorable. Again you will need to find a venue and catering for this. Also music and entertainment for the night. This is when the people can let their hair down and have fun.

These are the basics of a gay weddings and if you follow them you can't go far wrong. The most important thing really is the loving couple and the fact they are getting married, committing to each other and expressing their love.

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