How to Find Your True Love and Live Your Own "Happily Ever After"

I don't want to get all "dreamy" and say that "happily ever after" means having a life free from troubles just like how they described it in the fairy tales. For me it means spending your life with someone you love and weathering storms that come your way together. There will definitely be bumps on the road but since you have each other, everything is so much better. Life won't be perfect even if you find that one person who gives you butterflies in the stomach but knowing that there is someone by your side, it's not so bad afterall. There are ways on how to find your true love but before you even come down that road, you have to ask yourself first if you are ready. Don't try to find Mr. Right or Mrs. Right for the wrong reasons.

Read the following tips below on how to find love:

1.) Set Standards but Realize That Nobody is Created Perfect

Women are notorious (sorry, ladies) for creating a list and actually adhering to it like some kind of a holy book. While it is perfectly OK to set your standards, make sure you are not looking for a man that only exists in the movies or in romance novels. I admit that it's often difficult to clearly know the difference between being realistic and settling but ask yourself this question- are you everything that a man is looking for? I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every person has flaws and I'm not just referring to physical flaws. If you want to find true love, open your eyes and start looking at things on a different perspective. Once you've learned how to accept and love people for who they are and not for who you want them to become, you'll feel liberated and you will be much happier. Focus on the positive traits of the person instead of finding what's wrong with them all the time.

If you keep looking for your perfect mate, you will never find true love. Afterall, true love means seeing an imperfect person perfectly. It's all about seeing what's on the inside and most importantly valuing things that matter the most.

2.) Know Your Internal Blocks

What's keeping you from finding your true love? Whatever it is (still hung up on your ex, sky-high standards, insecurities, painful past, etc.) that's preventing you from being happy with someone, you have to work on it. If you want to find somebody so they can fix your issues for you then you are off to a horrible start. Don't jump into a relationship with emotional baggage. It's not only unfair to that other person but it's totally unhealthy for both parties involved.

If you want to find your true love, the first thing you have to do is get rid of all the clutter in your life. Clear your head and love yourself more. When you love yourself and you have a positive outlook towards life, this will definitely show and yes, you are going to attract more people.

3.) Take Responsibility on How to Find Your True Love

Some people like to leave matters to destiny and accept things as they are. They always say that love will find its way to you. And if it never comes? I say find it! You have to take responsibility of your life and the choices you make. Sure there are things that are out of our control but we have the power to make a choice and turn our life around. Mr. Right or Mrs. Right won't just come knocking on your door, that will never happen. If you want to meet someone then do something about it. Don't just sit at home and keep praying that the man or woman of your dreams would fall on your lap from heaven.

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