I Love Her But She Does Not Feel the Same Way About Me - 2 Reasons Why

It has to be one of the worst situations that you can find yourself in when it comes to romance. Feeling as though you are totally in love with a woman and she does not love you back is something that you would not wish on your worst enemy. Okay, maybe that was a stretch. You might wish it on your worst enemy. Still, you don't want to have to go through a situation like this. What is a guy to do when you feel like you are in love with a woman, but you are sure that she does not feel the same feelings that you do?

Most men are going to react to a situation like this by letting themselves feel hurt and heart broken, but that does nothing to make things better for you. So, I would not really recommend that you do this at all. It's just going to make you feel horrible if you allow yourself to feel that way. The best thing that you can do is to try and figure out where you went wrong so that you can either turn things around or try to make sure that it never happens again.

Let's take a look at two of the more common explanations for why you end up falling for a woman but she does not reciprocate:

1) You gave her too much attention from the beginning.

A lot of men don't realize this, but if you give a woman too much attention from the beginning, it can work against you. Doing this can make her see you as a friend from the very beginning and that means that basically nothing you will do will change that feeling. You have to learn to be a little less attentive so that she feels like she has to try and grab your attention. Doing this changes the dynamic between you and her and makes it a lot more likely that she is going to look at you as less of a friend and more of a lover.

2) You never escalated beyond a certain point and that made her think you did not like her in that way.

This was a really tough lesson that I learned when I was younger. I hung out with this woman I worked with over the course of a month and during that time, I never really took things to another level with her. When I finally did try to, she told me that she like me like that when she first met me, but because I never did anything to take it to the next level - those feelings just kind of died. This is not a unique experience, many guys do this. And when they do, they end up falling hard for the woman, while she just thinks that they are cool with being friends. You don't want her to think that way at all.

A man who truly knows how to escalate attraction can easily make her feel like she is falling in love.

Go to: Underground Seduction Secrets to Get Your FREE Report on How to Approach, Attract, and Seduce ANY Woman You DESIRE...

Copyright © 2012 Chris G. Tyler All Rights Reserved.

View the original article here