How To Save Your Relationship - How To Keep Him From Walking Away

Has the deep freeze hit your relationship? Would you like to find a way to thaw things out before you scare him off forever? Do you wonder what happened when things between you seemed to be going so well? Or were they going as well as you thought? Something must have happened and if you are honest with yourself you can probably figure out what happened to scare him off. The question is; what are you going to do about it, if you don't want to lose him?

Do you need a little help understanding what you might have done to scare him off? Well there are three big reasons that often cause a man to suddenly back off a relationship. Take a look and see if any of these are responsible.

Reason #1 - Men Take Longer To Commit

It often takes men a lot longer to totally commit to a relationship. They think about these things much differently than women do. For a woman, a relationship can be the single most important thing in her life and because of that she'll do whatever she can to move things along quickly.

For a man, though, a relationship is only one part of his life and it's probably not even the most important for him. While women run on emotions, men operate logically. That puts the relationship at the top of the list for a woman, while it's on the list for a man.

The point is if you put too much pressure on him to commit more deeply and more quickly than he's ready for, he may just decide it's not worth the hassle and break it off. If you give him all the time he needs and let him decide when he's ready, you won't scare him away.

Reason #2 - You May Be Spoiling Him Too Much

As a woman in love, you probably delight in taking care of your man. That nurturing instinct is strong, and hard to ignore. The problem here can be that you go overboard on the taking care of him and do too much.

Men do love to be pampered and spoiled to a point. But if you cross the line, it becomes an annoyance and almost insulting. You're trying to do a good thing, but he feels like you think he can't take care of himself. He feels smothered.

Or he may react by taking you and what you do for granted. He no longer appreciates it - he expects it. In his eyes you're becoming less a woman and more a maid. Neither of these reactions is what you want. Eventually, he'll say enough, and be gone.

Reason #3 - Did You Undergo A Drastic Change From When You First Met?

Have you changed and become a different woman? If he feels like he met and fell for someone else, you may have a problem. You don't have to be different to be loved. Remember who he fell for and be that woman, not some new and improved model.

It's amazing how many women lose their identity and individuality when they get involved with a man. It's like they feel they can stop trying, now that they have someone. Sadly, they are overlooking the fact that their man fell in love with this unique woman and they don't want you to be so different that they don't recognize you any longer.

Do you understand what happened to scare him off? Great, now get to work fixing the problem and hopefully that deep freeze will start to thaw out and you can get back to loving each other.

Want to learn more about how to save your relationship? Then I'd love to help you!

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Kimberly White is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.

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