Some Reasons Why He Won't Call You Back
Want to know why we men don't follow through with a phone call after that 2nd or 3rd date? In your eyes the whole thing is going well. You suspect a link, some hope, he hasn't said anything or done anything that would trigger you to be alarmed and he seems to enjoy your company! So what gives? You brought your A game, and here you are, 2 days later still waiting patiently for that promised phone call, but notta, zilch, nothing!
More women have been on the receiving end of this State of affairs than I care to count! What did you do that was so awful that he felt the need to drop you like a hot potato?
Well if you'll let me I'd like to share some insight into the wacky thought process of a man's mind!
Let's set the foundation down for this article right now, when it comes down to the initial stages of getting to know a woman our thought process is in another Environment! We're unquestionably looking at this stage from totally different lenses.
You see, we will bring about our A game too, but we bring it at a much slower speed! We will try and impress you with our words but if our actions don't line up with those words then it's See You Later! Remember, a lot of times we as men will lie with no conscious simply because... we can! So here we are, hanging out with you, laughing, having delightful conversations, etc... everything seems to be on point but inside of us, we more than likely won't be geared up for the words relationship or commitment!
Think about that for a second, what's one of the biggest complaints you women have towards a man, his lack of ability to commit! So this should not come as some shock to you even at the opening stages of you two getting to know each other! Because we don't have that emotional connection within us like women, we aren't putting our heart in "harms way" by the third date! Yes, we maybe truly enjoying your company and like what we're seeing up to that point but we're not unlocking any emotional doors at this point.
With any luck you can start to see where the problem lies. Women simply permit their emotions to take over way too quick! Here's one area where taking a man's lead might just do you some good! You're basically Thinking like a man, but Acting like a lady! Now I know I maybe asking the impossible here but just take a second and reflect on a time when this happened to you, weren't you upset at yourself at one point because you did just that, fell too quick!
Know that this isn't the only reason why a man will quickly shut off the faucet! Maybe there's something personal going on with him at that particular time and because you two are just getting to know each other he doesn't feel all that confident with talking to you about it so he simply removes himself from the relationship all together. Or he was just too immature to move forward with something important in his life like a relationship (which is good for you, right?). And let us not forget the "playa", one that's incapable of establishing a serious connection with any woman in the first place.
We men like to place things in boxes inside of our heads, this is how we operate. So as we're trying to get to know you, what are the things that make you tick, what sorta fun do you like to have? We're intentionally placing all of these things in our boxes upstairs! We are nowhere in the vicinity our hearts desires at this stage of dating. We're pacing ourselves because we know just how deep things can get when the heart comes into play, you all on the other hand, pass out emotions like eye liner at a Mary Kay Convention! We're trying to make an educated decision as to whether or not you're worth our time, we recognize that if we come to the realization that you're not a good fit for us we can simply walk away from this period of the game without a lot lost, with the exception of a little time. Our hearts are still intact and we can purposefully move on.
So moving Ahead, if you're still in pursuit of Mr. Right and understand that it requires this dating process, try keeping this article in mind. We as men don't want our hearts broken either, so don't come down so harsh on us because we're simply taking our time to ensure that it doesn't happen! Take a page from our book the next time and let me know how that works out for you.
Anthony Taylor
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