Make a Man Interested: 4 Ways on How to Get Him to Ask You Out
Most women don't have the nerve to ask a guy out which means that they either have to wait in vain for them to get noticed or just completely forget about it and move on to the next one. Neither one of the two is a sensible solution for this kind of dilemma. Don't give up unless you've tried. If you want a guy to ask you out, the very first thing that you need to do is to obviously make him interested in you. It makes sense, right?
Whether it's that cute guy from the finance department or that guy you always run into at Starbucks, there are some effective ways on how to get him to ask you out.
1.) If you want to hit the nail right on its head all you have to do is to keep it real. Don't play games and please don't play hard-to-get. That tactic is too old and it hardly ever works! Know what you want and go for it. Approach the guy in the right manner so he would get the right signals. Guys see things as they are. Yes, you can say they don't overanalyze things just like women do. If you show a guy you don't like him or you are dodging him, that's what he is going to think. He will hardly see this as a challenge he wants to win and he will most likely date another girl.
2.) Dress to Impress. There's nothing wrong with being yourself and not pretending to be someone else but it wouldn't hurt if you dress up a little bit. We all know that men are visual and if you fail to satisfy this area, don't expect a guy to be interested in you. Make the effort to dress nicely (not provocatively) and look your best. Put on a little makeup and do something different with your hair. If you are used to wearing your hair in a bun, why not let it down for a change? Try a new wardrobe, perfume or sport a new hairstyle. Whatever boosts your confidence, just do it! Guys find it sexy when a woman is oozing with confidence. If you are confident and you look good, he will be inclined to strike a conversation with you and ask you out on a date.
3.) Laugh at his jokes. This may sound silly but men prefer dating women who get their jokes. When they make a woman laugh, they feel good about themselves. I can't reiterate how important this is if you want a guy to be interested in you. I'm not saying act like a mad woman and laugh at everything he says. Let out a good laugh only when he says something really funny. Be sincere and don't give out a fake laugh. If the guy doesn't seem really funny, you can act amused at the jokes he tells.
4.) Smile and make eye contact. If you want to know how to get him to ask you out, you have to master the art of being pleasant and sincere. When he talks to you, make sure he sees how beautiful your smile is. Guys love it when a girl smiles sweetly at them. Smiling at him is the first step in making him feel comfortable and less nervous. Once a guy learns that you have a pleasant nature, he will find a way for him to know you better and take you out on a date. Make eye contact but do not stare. If you stare at from head to toe, he is going to think you are creepy. Eye contact, when done right, will send signs of honesty and sincerity.
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