3 Ways on How to Get Him to Ask For Your Number
Have you always felt left out whenever you go out with your girl friends because you go home each time without someone asking for your number while your friends manage to score a date with a hot guy at the bar? While being attractive will have men give you a glance it doesn't mean that you can get him to ask for your number. It's not that simple. Dressing up provocatively does not guarantee that you'll score a date either. The second a guy sees you, he starts to pull out his checklist to establish whether or not you are the type of girl he wants to go out with. So, what do you need to do to make a guy interested in you and ask for your digits?
1.) Smile and Be Approachable
You've probably heard this over and over but if you want a foolproof way on how to make a man take notice of you, you have to smile sincerely at people. Let your guards down a little bit. You don't have to fake your smile though because believe it or not, guys can tell the difference between a genuine and a phony smile. A genuine smile will radiate a positive vibe. Men love a woman who is full of positivity. Be pleasant; don't be arrogant, argumentative and rude when having a conversation with someone. It's perfectly OK to be confident but don't come on too strong. Guys avoid women who behave this way. It doesn't matter if you have the prettiest face on the planet, no man would want to date you if you are arrogant and cocky. Smile and thank him when he gives you a compliment. Trust me; his heart is going to skip a beat.
2.) Compliment Him and Give Your Full Attention to Him
Complimenting a guy is one of the stepping stones of a flirty conversation. If you notice something nice about a guy, don't be afraid to tell him. Men love it when women give them a compliment here and there.
If you really want a guy to ask you for your number, you have to free yourself from distractions and stop looking at your phone every 10 minutes. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you want a guy to ignore you and not even look at you when you are having a conversation with him? Of course not! Focus on him and make him feel that everything he is saying is important. Listen to every word he is saying and make eye contact. This does not mean that you'll sit there all night listening to his stories or jokes. Respond to him and don't be afraid to voice out your opinions. Again, don't be arrogant. There are ways on how you can make a point without sounding egotistical.
3.) Learn How to Tease Him
If you want to get him to ask for your number, you have to learn how to tease him. Make him work a little harder but not too much that it will be too obvious that you want to play games. Men are competitive by nature and if you know how to tease a guy, use this against him and make it work on your advantage. Make him want more and act a little mysterious. Don't blurt out all the drama in your life on your first meeting. Be playful and avoid being uptight. Relax and don't worry about things not being perfect all the time. Make him feel that you are enjoying his company. Touch him once in a while on the arm or shoulder but do it subtly and quickly so he won't think that you are way too easy. Innocent touches will drive him crazy and would make him want to see more of you. And yes, the next thing you know, he is asking you for your number and wants to ask you out on a date.
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