How To Talk To Your Man And Make Him REALLY Listen

Would you like to know what kind of talk lets you instantly connect with your man? Do you want some tips on the best ways to talk to your man? Do you wish that the things you say could keep him thinking about you when you're apart? If you really want to make your relationship better and stronger, you need to learn how to talk to your man and make him really listen!

Love, Trust, And Communication

Communication is a big part of any relationship and talking is one of the main ways that we communicate with each other. But although there are all different kinds of talking, only some of them will help improve a relationship.

For instance, griping and complaining are ways of talking to a man but do you think they are going to do anything to make things better between the two of you. The same goes for arguing and demanding. And that's why how you talk can be the difference between drawing you closer and putting a wedge between you.

So just how should you talk to your man? Whether it's a serious conversation or some lighthearted bantering, you want to get your message across and really connect. So for starters, make sure your conversation fits what's going on.

If you're snuggling together on the couch and relaxing, it's probably a good time to tell him how you feel about him. But it's probably not the best time to talk about how much he needs to contribute for groceries.

Men Have Different "Rules" For Communication

For a man, talking doesn't always come easy, especially when the talk gets serious. In this case, less may be more, meaning that you don't want to overwhelm or bombard him with a whole bunch of serious issues at the same time.

Instead of drawing you closer together to deal with problems, this may have the opposite effect and make him try to avoid these topics at all costs. You're better off trying to deal with one issue at a time and waiting for another time for the others.

Don't Stop Flirting And Teasing

Just because you're a couple doesn't mean that you should forget what brought you together in the first place. You probably did some flirting and teasing when you first met. Do you remember how much fun it was?

So don't stop now just because you're in a relationship. Keep flirting with him and don't forget to throw in some gentle teasing while you're at it.

If you think these are kind of meaningless when it comes to talking and communicating, think again. Flirting and teasing are healthy signs in a relationship because if you weren't happy with each other, you wouldn't feel comfortable talking to each other like that.

As you can see, if you learn how to really talk to your man, your relationship will only get stronger. If you'd like to learn more ways of connecting with your man, I can help.

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Evangeline Harris is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.

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